Family Counselling & Therapy
Building stronger connections and healthier communication patterns for the whole family.
Healing Together Through Relationship-First Care
A family is an interconnected system. When one person struggles, the whole family feels the impact. Leveraging her background in behaviour intervention and trauma-informed care, Sheila provides Family Counselling as a neutral ground where every member's voice can be heard.
- Resolving high-conflict dynamics and frequent arguing
- Repairing parent-child relationships after trauma or stress
- Managing sibling rivalry and building empathy
- Navigating divorce, separation, and blended family integration
- Establishing healthy, neurodiversity-affirming boundaries and routines
When family stress is also showing up at school, Sheila can collaborate with educators and school teams to keep support consistent across settings.
If the family system is not the main focus and you need a private space for your own burnout, identity, guilt, or emotional wellbeing, counselling for mothers and caregivers may be a better fit. For practical, day-to-day support with routines, co-regulation and boundaries, parent coaching can also complement family work, and youth and teen counselling is available when a teen needs their own space.
Moving Beyond Blame
Families can get stuck when labels take over: “the difficult child,” “the angry parent,” “the one who always shuts down.” These labels are usually born from real frustration, but they tend to freeze people in place and make repair harder. Narrative-informed family counselling helps everyone step back from the labels and look at the patterns instead, separating people from the cycles that keep showing up.
From there, there is room for each person’s perspective and for preferred stories of connection: the moments when the family already listens, repairs, or works together, even briefly. There is no guaranteed outcome, but loosening the grip of blame often makes it easier to hear one another and try something different. Emotion-focused principles can also help a family notice the needs underneath strong reactions and respond with both connection and safe limits. You can read more about this approach on our Narrative Therapy page.
For more focused reading, you can also explore support for family conflict, high-conflict families, and divorce and separation. If your family has been affected by violence, our domestic violence and family violence pages describe safety-focused support. The main FAQ also covers fees, availability and what to expect.
Family Empowerment
Family counselling is not about choosing one person as the problem. It creates space to understand patterns, strengthen communication and help children, teens and caregivers feel heard. Sheila works collaboratively so families can practise realistic tools that fit their relationships, values and everyday life.
Not sure whether this support is the right fit? A free 15-minute consultation is a simple place to begin.
Book a Free 15-Minute ConsultationProfessional Collaboration
A child's growth is supported best when their whole village works together. Sheila actively collaborates with multidisciplinary teams to ensure consistent, wrap-around support across all environments. We partner closely with:
Bridging the Gap: To ensure that therapeutic strategies translate into real-world success, Sheila is available to attend school meetings (including IEPs), conduct school and daycare observations, and help develop cohesive, evidence-based behaviour and emotional regulation plans that work seamlessly between home, school, and clinic.
Learn how Sunny Spot can collaborate with families, educators and school teams.
Family counselling is available in person at Sunny Spot’s Port Coquitlam office, welcoming families from Coquitlam, Port Moody and across the Tri-Cities.
For things to try at home, explore our free tools for supporting connection at home.
Frequently asked questions
Not Sure How to Tell Your Child About Counselling?
The way counselling is introduced can shape how safe and open it feels. Our gentle parent guide includes age-appropriate language, simple scripts, what to avoid, and what the first sessions may look like.
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