Sheila is one of the brightest, most uplifting people I know. She puts people at ease right away, and she brings real care to everything she does. Any child or family working with her is in caring, capable hands.
Experience, Empathy, and Clinical Expertise.
Dedicated to supporting children and families through a trauma-informed, neurodiversity-affirming lens.

About Sheila Aini, MC, RCC
With 9 years of experience in behaviour intervention supporting children, youth, and families, I bring a profound understanding of child development, attachment, behavioral challenges, and emotional regulation to Sunny Spot Counselling. I hold a Master of Counselling degree and am a Registered Clinical Counsellor with the British Columbia Association of Clinical Counsellors.
My clinical foundation is uniquely shaped by dual perspectives: extensive, on-the-ground experience as a Behaviour Interventionist and Behaviour Therapist, combined with clinical training and trauma counselling experience at Battered Women's Support Services (BWSS) that strengthened my trauma-informed lens. This combination allows me to provide robust, evidence-based therapy that never loses sight of the human heart and the vital need for emotional safety.
Trauma-Informed Care & BWSS Background
My clinical training and trauma counselling experience at BWSS strengthened the trauma-informed lens I bring to my work. It taught me that genuine healing cannot occur without first establishing absolute physical and emotional safety. I carry this trauma-informed approach into every session, ensuring that pacing is dictated by the client and that therapy is a collaborative, empowering process.
Behaviour Intervention & Multidisciplinary Experience
Before transitioning fully to clinical counselling, I spent years working extensively as a Behaviour Therapist across diverse settings including family homes, schools, daycares, clinics, and community environments. This hands-on experience gives me a practical, realistic understanding of how neurodivergent children (including those with ADHD and Autism) navigate the world, and how to effectively support them outside the therapy room.
My Philosophy
I strongly align with the belief that "every child does well if they can." When children struggle with defiance, tantrums, or school anxiety, it is not a lack of willpower, but rather a lagging skill or an unmet need. My role as a child therapist is to help uncover those needs, teach essential emotional regulation skills, and empower parents to become their child's secure emotional anchor.
My approach is also informed by narrative therapy, which separates people from problems and makes room for identity, values, and strengths. Rather than defining a child, teen, or adult by what they are struggling with, it invites curiosity about the stories that have shaped them and the preferred stories they want more room to live by.
Education & Credentials
- Master of Counselling (MC): Advanced clinical training in therapeutic practice
- Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC): British Columbia Association of Clinical Counsellors
- Bachelor of Arts: Joint Major in Anthropology & Sociology
- Certificate in Social Justice: Specialized training in equity-informed practice
- Standard First Aid with CPR-C & AED: Current certification
Professional Experience & Training
- Extensive Background in Behaviour Intervention & Behaviour Therapy
- Specialized experience providing neurodiversity-affirming care
- Crisis intervention and trauma counselling at Battered Women's Support Services (BWSS)
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I truly admire the empathy and authenticity Sheila brings to her work. She cares deeply about the people she works with and is committed to helping them create meaningful change in their lives. I would wholeheartedly recommend her as a counsellor!
Sheila is a compassionate, knowledgeable, and highly experienced counsellor. Sheila brings many years of experience working with neurodivergent children and has a wonderful ability to meet each child with kindness, patience, and genuine understnding.
Warm, thoughtful and deeply compassionate. Sheila builds genuine connections with young people and create a safe space for expression. Her trauma-informed, neurodiversity-affirming approach supports children and teens to feel heard, valued and empowered.
Sheila is a passionate and engaging counsellor with a natural ability to connect with children and youth in the therapeutic process. Her warmth, energy, and relational approach help young clients feel seen and understood as they grow and learn new skills.
Sheila is an engaging and personable counsellor. She is experienced supporting children and families with diverse needs, particularly providing behaviour therapy to children with Autism Spectrum Disorder. She makes her clients feel heard and welcomed!
Sheila's drive and efforts towards those she works with is inspiring! She offers a warm and supportive approach, works hard, and is continuing to find ways to learn and expand her knowledge.
Sheila brings genuine kindness, compassion, and warmth to her work, while maintaining a strong commitment to creating a safe, supportive, and caring environment for her clients.
Sheila brings warmth, enthusiasm, and genuine care to her work. She is thoughtful and intentional in creating an accessible, inclusive, and trauma-informed counselling experience where her compassion and authenticity truly shine through.
Professional Collaboration
A child's growth is supported best when their whole village works together. Sheila actively collaborates with multidisciplinary teams to ensure consistent, wrap-around support across all environments. We partner closely with:
Bridging the Gap: To ensure that therapeutic strategies translate into real-world success, Sheila is available to attend school meetings (including IEPs), conduct school and daycare observations, and help develop cohesive, evidence-based behaviour and emotional regulation plans that work seamlessly between home, school, and clinic.
Learn how Sunny Spot can collaborate with families, educators and school teams.
Sheila provides in-person counselling from Sunny Spot’s Port Coquitlam office and welcomes children, teens, parents and families from Coquitlam, Port Moody and across the Tri-Cities.
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